Message From the Universe: Getting What You Deserve

"I can assure you that the time will come when you, too, will ask, "In what fields did I sow seeds to deserve so very, very much."

Then I'll remind you that the whole sowing-seeds-cause-and-effect concept was just a myth, because you were born deserving.

Hosanna in the Highest,

The Universe"

Maybe, just maybe, you didn't plant seeds in every fields out there. However, you definitely made sure to water these fields properly. It is not uncommon to have seeds planted in many different locations, projects, ventures to hopefully one day, these seeds will grow to something phenomenal. Nothing grows overnight, we all know that. The same goes to success, it doesn't happen that quickly. Evidently, these facts are known to many people out there, however, we all wonder how some success comes out of the blue, just because we didn't hear about their progress for the past 10 years the creator struggled to make his or her venture happen. It is not because you don't see it that it is not happening.

Some have worked very hard and have succeeded and others have worked extremely hard and have not made it at all. What is the difference between both scenarios? Belief. One believed wholeheartedly that success is near and that nothing will stop him or her to make it happen. He or she accept anything coming their way and will not be depressed if things do not work the way they expected. They will continue pushing harder until something happens. The latter feels entitled that good things HAS to happen to them but are not ready to go that extra mile and abandon ship at the first obstacle. They then get frustrated, hates everything and everyone and finally decides to travel the 9 to 5pm schedule route. They eventually hate themselves for doing so and become very irate at work towards colleagues and end up getting fired. The downward spiral continues until depression and feelings of suicide. Not sure that is the right way to start the New Year. We all deserve happiness, we all deserve success, we all deserve health and wealth, but avoid adopting the feeling of entitlement because you are not entitled to anything. Hard work is needed but is NOT guaranteed to make things happen the way you want. If it doesn't work, brush it off and start again until it does. Nothing should stop you from reaching your dreams, so failure is REQUIRED, many times over, to experience SUCCESS.

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5 Stupid Excuses for Giving Up

There's a saying that goes: "If it's important to you, you'll find a way. If not, you'll find an excuse."

Boom. Love it.

If a project is neither necessary or interesting for you anymore, there's no shame in abandoning it. But otherwise, there are only excuses for giving up on working towards our deepest dreams and desires.

And I wage that there are only stupid excuses for giving up the project of building one's confidence.

With that, I hereby line up five of these excuses and debunk them one at a time:

#1. "I've tried everything"

First of all, no you haven't. Because if you did, you'd have succeeded.

Second, let's even say for a moment, hypothetically, that you'd literally tried everything and still not succeeded. Ask yourself what's most likely: That A) somehow it just doesn't work for you out of everyone who's tried everything, ever, or that B) there's one or more steps which you simply haven't done properly.

#2. "It's too hard"

Too hard for what?? Nothing is "too hard" if you do it in achievable magnitudes. In other words: Break it down into smaller bits and don't do more than possible at a time.

Even if you're about to take on a major endeavour, you gotta start wherever you're at. And all the better if you start slowly and accelerate gradually. If you're gonna run a marathon, you're not gonna start off by doing all 26 miles at once. But if you can run 20 minutes three times a week, you're off to a decent start.

Wanna start your own business? Read the three best books in your field and you'll be way ahead of the vast majority.

#3. "I've given up on everything else, once more won't make any difference"

This isn't something we say out loud, but a piece of inner dialogue. It's habitual thinking out of habitual action - or lack thereof. And it's a painfully obvious result of low confidence and self-esteem.

If it's important to you, it does so make a difference that you don't give up. And that, plus the fact that you've given up on "everything else", even if it's an exaggeration, is all the more reason for you to not give up on this one.

#4. "I haven't got the time"

Just like the "I've tried everything" mindset, this mindset is one of limited resourcefulness. It's probably the most common and reasonable one on here. - But it's still no more than an excuse.

You see... WE ALL HAVE 24 HOURS EVERY DAY.

There is no such thing as "I haven't got the time". There is only wrong prioritizing and lack of energy, and these are amenable obstacles.

Getting a coach is a hugely effective way of solving this.

#5. "It feels safer and more comfortable doing what I'm used to"

Like #3, this is one of those unsaid excuses we only tell ourselves, and that is just eerily close to its origin in fear, insecurity, and low confidence/self-esteem.

Look... :

The biggest risk is to bet your entire life on fear-based habits and instant gratification.

We're here once. No reasonable basis for thinking otherwise. So let's establish all the confidence we need. Let's not waste our only chance by letting fear and insecurity get in the way.

Let's stop coming up with dumb excuses for giving up on our true goals.

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Message From the Universe: Living Like Royalty!

"It's kind of like you're now working as the caretaker of the most fabulous estate imaginable, with opulence, beauty, and perfection that truly boggles the mind. And you work for some lofty, often whispered about, mysterious royal heir who none have ever met, yet for whom legends abound.

An owner renowned for a brilliant sense of adventure, ingenious creativity, and outrageous self-imposed challenges.

And you're so mesmerized by the winding paths, the immaculate gardens, coffered rock jetties, and shimmering waterways that it just hasn't dawned on you yet that this... has been your greatest challenge of all. Your Highness.

You didn't hear it from me,

The Universe"

Your feelings of greatness can come to reality. It all starts with ONE thought. A thought so real, so palpable that pushes you to move forward, towards your ultimate destination. There is NO reason why others made it and not you. It is important to never compare yourself to what or how others made it, as we all have different journeys in life. It is important to get inspired by the accomplishments of others, but do not let it deter you from your ultimate goal. It is not because he made 1 billion dollars that you are left with 1 billion less. There is so much abundance out there that there is enough for everyone to get their share. Focus on what you personally want out of life, and go for it. I am sure that you will get discouraged at times, but no one ever said that the path to success will be an easy one. There will be ups and many downs as well. You will be experiencing hardship, lots of failures, anger, sadness, depression, and a lot more worst attributes that you can even fathom. However, when the good times do emerge, you will look back and say: "it wasn't that bad after all". It might be easier said than done, but how about just allowing to experience this feeling and go reach the summit. I know you want it as bad as any other ones who succeeded, so give it time and always stay on your track to success. Embrace the challenges that comes into your life and to alleviate these challenges, always ask yourself: "What's the worst that can happen"? and start looking for a solution from that point on. By finding it, you will resolve the fear that originated from that challenge.

This is what you need to expect from life and it is crucial that you keep yourself open minded for everything that you will encounter. There is never any optimal solution to every problem you will face, but try looking for something that will allow you to move forward, regardless of the issues. You do not want to allow anything bringing your down and keeping you there permanently. You want to pull yourself up and start climbing the ladder. You may fall at times, but it is crucial to get back up. It will certainly hurt, but once you reach the top, you will certainly feel like a new person, someone that has no limits or no fear. You want to tap yourself on the back (if you can, of course) and ask yourself: "OK, that wasn't too bad. What's next?"

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