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Showing posts with label social gatherings. Show all posts

Social Anxiety Medications

A fairly ‘new’ anxiety, Social Anxiety disorder was overlooked for quite a long while by the medical community as it was often confused with shyness. That being said, the drug companies haven’t been backward and there are as many Social Anxiety medications on the market as there are other anxiety medications although truly most anti anxiety drugs are suitable for all types of anxiety disorders. Only a very few drugs are completely anxiety specific, so a general mild anti anxiety medication will probably work just as well as specific Social Anxiety medications.

What is social anxiety, you ask? Well, to put it simply you fear certain social situations and will go to any lengths to avoid them. This doesn’t necessarily follow that you’ll be of a retiring nature and that you won’t like social gatherings. It only means that certain specific social situations lead you to feel anxiety and sometimes to experience panic attacks. So whereas a person with a shy disposition might shirk all social gatherings, you could be the life of the party one minute with all eyes on you and loving it and the next minute something could happen to bring about your Social Anxiety. Perhaps you find yourself in a humiliating situation or you find yourself in a position from which you can’t remove yourself and that’s when your Social Anxiety symptoms will all kick in at once drowning you in their viselike grip. So what can you do about it?

First rest assured that you can generally use Social Anxiety medications to treat your condition, but it’s always a good idea to make certain that you truly are suffering from Social Anxiety and not just plain shyness. So here are a few symptoms for you to look out for when next you find yourself in that position.

Fear of being socially humiliated, fear of being embarrassed, heightened feelings of awareness, shortness of breath, sweaty hands, trembling and twitching. If you experience palpitations, nausea and lightheadedness, along with feelings of incompetence and extreme cases of anxiety as well then there’s a good chance that you suffer from Social Anxiety or Social Phobia as it’s also known. These symptoms might seem like normal ‘shy person’ symptoms but they only become Social Anxiety symptoms when they’re experienced in the extreme end of the spectrum of feelings.

Social Anxiety medications however can fix these problems easily especially if caught in the early stages so you need not suffer for too long. However if you’re unwilling to get on the medication bandwagonArticle Search, there are always alternative treatments available for you. Therapy can also be a viable alternative to Social Anxiety medications and can help you greatly. Talk with your doctor about all your alternatives and find the right one for you. Social situations need not be embarrassing or excruciatingly painful affairs; and who knows you might just find yourself enjoying yourself for the first time in a long while if you can find the correct suitable cure for yourself.


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Two Major Mistakes You Should Stop Making Right Now


"Why can't I just figure stuff out like everyone else?"

"Am I the only one who doesn't know how to take control of my life yet?"

"How did everyone else learn know how to handle all these challenges?"

"How come everyone else seem so freakin' content all the time?"

Any of these ring a bell?

Ever notice how we tend to think that we're the only one who hasn't got it all figured out yet?

Of course you do. We all think like this sometimes. After all, we've never been as old as we are at any given time. And since we haven't, then how are we supposed to know what to do about everything?

It's funny, then, how "everyone else" seem to be perfectly on top of things, even though the same condition applies to them too.

... Of course there's always that one utterly clueless idiot, but generally, "everyone else" doesn't seem like much of a stretch when it comes to these things.

What if I told you that most people think this way about others - including you?

Why is this?

Well, for one thing. Our minds still haven't evolved much in the last 10.000 years or so. We're still subconsciously on the lookout for potential threats anywhere, anytime. But today there's no sabre-toothed tigers anywhere. Our subconscious mind, then, considers our main threat to be other people.

Therefore, we tend to not only overestimate others, but, accordingly, underestimate ourselves.

We want to keep up appearances because they serve us like a barrier towards... well, unpleasant stuff.

Look at the average Facebook pictures. You'll see people's vacations, their nights out, and other social gatherings. The status updates will be about pets, babies, and plain ol' food. So... nice things, really.

What you probably won't see are people's marital arguments. Their sudden panic attacks while at the store. That one time they got too drunk and embarrassed themselves at a family reunion because deep down they were miserable.

Those things aren't comfortable... So we put a lid on them.

Since we tend to be closed about these unpleasant sides of our lives, it's easy to mistake other people's apparent lack of problems for success. Which, of course, it's not. It's simply cultural taboo doing its thing.

Furthermore, it's easy to get caught up in one's own problems. After all, you're the one having them, right? Nobody knows your problems better than you, and they're no bigger to anybody else but you.

The combination of those two things -- overestimating other people's apparent success + underestimating one's actual blessings, advantages and abilities = one debilitating combo.

The problem is, it's easy to let it deceive you.

The good news is, it's exactly that: Nothing more than effective deception.

Statistically, you'll be off like the majority when it comes to having problems. And chances are that you'll be blowing your own ones out of proportion.

If our primal minds are constantly on the look for trouble, they're gonna find it whether it's there or not. This is why people create drama when they're bored: It's what our brains are hardwired to do!

We actually NEED a certain amount of problems in our lives. Otherwise, we'd go insane! Because problems - and the overcoming thereof - feels like purpose, like meaning.

Ever been alone with nothing to do, read or watch for hours on end? We'd go crazy if we didn't have any kind of task, leisure or distraction.

However, to function properly we need to distinguish and prioritize between realistic, relevant problems and perceived mountains where there's only molehills.

When we're aware of these things, we can overestimate others a little less, and underestimate ourselves a little less.

In time, we might even be capable of making realistic assessments of the world.

How about that?!

In short, and in other words:

Never underestimate yourself. And never overestimate others.

(But of course, don't do the opposite, either!)


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