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Showing posts with label positive vibes. Show all posts
Showing posts with label positive vibes. Show all posts
Expectations Reality
William Shakespeare said "Expectation is the root of all heartaches"
In life, things don't always go as planned. We lay our scenarios in our heads, of everything going perfectly, and looking great, without a hitch or flaw. But let's be honest things almost never go down the way we think. We humans make our own fantasy world and think according to that, but reality is much different. I am not saying having expectations is wrong, we all do expect something from someone. A father does from his child, we from our friends and family and the list is never ending. But the thing is, sometimes we expect a lot from other people. We expect more from them because we would be willing to do that much from them.
Many of us have been in a situation where we felt helpless just because someone terminated our feelings. But this is how the life goes on. The only expectations we should have is from ourselves. We should keep our expectations high on achievements and low on people. There is no reason to feel disappointed, just let the things happen. we should have our goals high. It's better to be surprised than to be disappointed.
Successful people are successful because they are goal oriented. They don't expect anything from others but only from them. So we should have our dreams high and expectations even higher for ourselves. Because we are the writer of our own story, no one else will sail the boat of our lives. So don't expect more from the world. Be confident. Have the courage to face the world, be patient.
Thus I would like to conclude by quoting these lines from the Bhagwad Gita "Far better to live your own path imperfectly than to live another's perfectly."
"BEING JUDGED"
Have you ever thought that you are being judged? Don't worry. There will always be one person sitting somewhere in the world finding faults in you right now. No matter how you walk, dress, talk, no matter what you do, no matter what you don't do, they are going to judge you.
We are surrounded by a huge number of people. They include our family, friends, and people we haven't heard names of. Except a few of them everyone else is judging you.
If you drink, smoke- they'll judge you.
If you are a girl and roam with your guy friends they'll judge you.
If you don't talk too much, they'll say you are snobbish.
If you start any conversation, they'll say that you are way easy.
If you decide to please yourself first, they'll judge you by saying that you are selfish.
If you don't go out for a round of beers, they'll say you are boring.
Thousand other examples would suffice this argument, but it's pointless. Negativity will always haunt you. It will want to tear you apart and strive to leave a tinge of sadness in your soul that can bring you down. And the only thing that can heal you are the positive vibes that we need to inculcate in ourselves. You know what is snobbish, selfish, easy, boring here... 'THEM'.
You will anyway be judged for everything you do, whether it's wrong or right. Just do what you feel is good until and unless it doesn't hurt anyone. Do what makes you happy, do what your heart wants you to do. Find a way that makes you stand apart and ignore the crowd.
In the end, it is the warm smile on your face after facing all the cruelness that will make people gaze in awe and make their mouth shut.
5 Positive Tips to Dismiss Negativity In Your Life
Life is not full of roses and positivity all the time, there are moments when even the most inspired person feels down.
Here are 5 tips that I have used to help drag me out of a negative or 'bad' vibe and got me back on track to some good vibes. When we are in flow with the positive vibes in our own space, that is when the magic of opportunities start to happen.
1. Develop your mindset. Reading self development books, watching you tube motivation videos in areas where you feel you need to strengthen yourself will help to improve your mindset and confidence.
You are More than you think you are. Yes you are. You just have to look at ALL of your qualities. If you can't see what they are, ask your friends, they will tell you the honest truth.
2. If you are not failing, you are not doing. By this I mean we all have to at least TRY something, right? If you are not trying SOMETHING then ultimately you are not doing ANYTHING, which means you are going no where.
However, when you go all out and try, but it doesn't quite turn out right, then FAILING and learning from that failure, ensures you are MOVING FORWARD!
We have to move forward from our failures. Do you know that most successful people fail loads of times, but they learn from each failure and next time turn it into a success. So can you.
3. See the Positive in every Negative. Let's face it, shit happens, we do get dealt some awful blows at a time when things seem to be going really really well. However, sometimes you just have to look deep into the situation to find out what the positive was. For instance, the other day my son had a car accident, (not his fault) and he felt so down, in fact distraught was more close to the truth... but what came out of it was that his car was fixed and had newer grills put on it. Now a few months before he was 'moaning' about the scratches and little stone dents on his bonnet, but now his bonnet was getting fixed as part of the claim. To me, that was a positive out of the negative, also the fact that a lesson learned was to be more aware of other drivers and what they are doing, and don't second guess that they do know what they are doing!
4. Let it Go! Yep, just like the track Frozen, if you hold onto bad vibes, negative feelings, sadness too long it will bring you down, and possibly push those around you away. So just 'let it go. There is nothing you can do about it anyway, but reflect and learn from the situation. Go out and have fun, watch a comedy, find the funny moment in the 'bad' event, do something to make you smile, the negative vibes will soon leave your body.
5. Look Forward, not back. Listen we were created with eyes in front of our heads, not behind us, so that gives you a clue as to where you should be looking right? Too often people get stuck in the past and keep looking back over old issues / problems. If you keep looking back, you won't see a new door or opportunities opening up for you.
If you do some if not all of these things, your life will turn itself around and you will discover that there is more in life, through the lessons life dishes out. Yes every trial and challenge is a lesson life has for YOU especially, and if you don't take head of that lesson life keeps repeating the lesson until you GET IT!
https://ezinearticles.com/?5-Positive-Tips-to-Dismiss-Negativity-In-Your-Life&id=8825521
Can The Law Of Attraction Be Overused?
The Law of Attraction gives us the ability to vibrate in a frequency that's in sync with the universe so that we're more aligned to get what we want in life.
While not everyone believes in this concept, many do. For those believers, is it possible to overuse this ability for personal gains?
We all have our own wants, needs and desires, and the very nature of the LOA allows us to obtain them. But, are those wants, needs and desires always on the good side of things? Can we use the LOA in malicious ways that cause other people physical, emotional, or material harm?
Many believers of the LOA would reject this notion because it goes against what the concept is all about. In other words, if you use it for ill intent, you set yourself up for negative consequences as a result. This is why negative people often feel stuck in life. They aren't putting out any positive vibes.
People can't hide their thoughts. Therefore, even if they try to make it seem to others that their intentions are good, if they "feed the system" with bad energy, it will return to them with bad results. It's almost like the old television commercial with the ending line, "it's not nice to fool with the Mother Nature."
Based on all of this, you cannot overuse the LOA.
In fact, you need to embrace it in its fullest form to get the most benefits from it. When you use it for the positive intended purposes, what you return will be creative energy that helps yourself and in many cases, others. This is why it's better to go full force and use it to your advantage.
Critics of this practice will make it difficult for some to continue using the LOA. This is a shame because as more people realize what is possible with the LOA, the better the universe becomes because of it. These critics will rule it out entirely and will never experience the greatness they are capable of becoming.
It takes discipline to master the concepts.
Too many people shrug the LOA off as simply thinking positive thoughts, but there is much more to it than that. It takes focus and practice as well as learning the proper techniques to master it.
If you don't believe in the LOA and its principles, that's totally okay because ultimately it's whether such a tool serves you. Always be open-minded, always be self-investing, always find ways to become the greater version of ourselves and you'll find your unique way to transform your life.
http://ezinearticles.com/?Can-The-Law-Of-Attraction-Be-Overused?&id=9554902
Dealing With Unemployment - How to Beat Negative Thoughts When You Are Unemployed
Do you have to deal with unemployment? If yes, it is natural that you will be frustrated and negative thoughts will creep in. How do you beat these kinds of thoughts? Read on to find out.
Try to engage yourself in two or three hobbies for instance, gardening, reading, singing, dancing, writing and others.
While you do these, immerse yourself completely in them and focus on them without giving the chance to let negative thoughts take over. You are doing something positive and so let positive vibes fill up your mind and soul.
So long you retain the positivity, think of how you can monetize your hobbies by taking them a level higher. For instance, if you are listening and learning songs, you can think of singing in the Broadway and earn some good money.
If you are growing vegetables in your garden, you can sell them at the vegetable market nearby at a reasonable price.
If you are reading and writing a lot, you can think of plotting a story in the form of a novel, self-publish and sell it on Amazon, starting at a low price. When there is demand for your novel, elevate the price. This is how you make good money from your gem piece of work.
None of these possibilities would emerge if you stay bogged down and resent yourself thinking negatively.
A positive attitude is so much better while dealing with unemployment because it takes you places you never imagined and that stretches your mind so much that it is impossible to return to the original form. In fact, you simply soar high.
Gone are the days when you only have the option of 9-5 jobs. Now you can have so many choices of job opportunities even online via internet. Browse sites and see if there is anything that interests you.
Creating personal development programs, teaching online courses, building online courses and money making schemes are just a few to mention.
So think of what you would like to do via internet or your hobbies. There is every chance you will stumble on to something you love doing and you will never have to work another day in your life.
Therefore, optimism is the key. Think positive and act positive and everything will fall together, giving you the opportunity to earn handsomely with boundless joy and delight. What better way is there not only to survive but also thrive?
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The Law of Attraction - Why Can't I See It?
In the beginning I just went with it, and did all the affirmations, and intention setting stuff. I wrote my 'wish lists' and 'bucket lists' by the hundreds, and had all my yellow 'post-it' stickers around the house telling me I was 'Beautiful', or 'Rich' or 'Prosperous'. In fact, according to all the stickers, if you put them all together, I was probably the most perfect human being on the planet!
But even with all of this, and all the visualising and meditating, I felt like I'd spent years without really "GETTING IT"!
Oh, I'd find the perfect car park when I wanted it, or a situation would unfold 'just as I'd imagined it'. But I still didn't think I'd totally got it!
I went back, and started reviewing this whole 'Law of Attraction' thing, and realized I'd never really appreciated the most important step. The last one. Step 3.
You have to be clear on what you want (check); You have to 'put it out there' (check) and you have to give it up to God/The Universe/The Divine/The Almighty/ {put your understanding here} and wait for it to happen (UNCHECKED!!).
I was great at doing the first two, but then got impatient waiting for the last one. I'd give up and doubt the process. I'd get impatient and decide it wasn't happening. This is the part I was most active in, and this is what was sabotaging my first two steps!
On a scale of 1 to 10, how much did I do the first two steps? Always and absolute 10!
On a scale of -1 to -10, how much did I do the last step? Always a -10!
Add the two sums together and the answer was a massive big, fat 0! The realization hit me like a sledge-hammer. I was cancelling out any positive 'vibes' working towards manifesting my intentions with the doubts and impatience in my third step! I realised I was constantly looking for 'proof' that the Law of Attraction was working, and in doing so, this sent out the message that I doubted it worked, which is what I consistently got back in return.
So now I do steps one and two, and then spend most of my time sitting back and enjoying step three. I've shifted my mindset to accepting that "when the time is right" I will get what I've intended (or better), in the same way that night follows day, which follows night.
Detaching from the outcome - That's the missing link!
The Law of Attraction Step by Step: How Can You Fulfill Your Dreams?
It is a well-known fact that everything around us is energy. From a spiritual perspective, everything begins from a source of energy which means pure consciousness, God. From a scientific perspective, material world is formed out of atoms, even us and air around us.
What are atoms formed from?
Protons (positive power), neutrons (no power) and electrons (negative power). So, if everything in the Universe is formed from atoms, it means that everything is energy.
Our thoughts produce an electric vibration which is continuously released in the Universe together with our wishes. This means that if you continue to have negative thoughts or destructive about yourself, about your current situation and other people or things, you create negative emotions and feelings, leading to negative habits and actions, creating more negative energies and situations which will come back to your life, over and over again. This is the reason why this theory is called the Law of Attraction, because you attract in your life what you think most of the time.
The same thing is applied about your positive vibes and thoughts. The more you act with love, gratitude, patience, kindness, the more you will attract these things into your life.
All you need to know about the Law of Attraction is that you are the creator of your own world. Everything that happens in your life now (good or bad), happens because you attracted it, conscious or not; because many things happen in our unconsciousness, without realizing it. It is very important to try to understand ourselves better.
For some people it is difficult to admit it, but when you start to realize and to use thoughts positively, you will notice that your life will change, in better.
The first step is to start admitting your thoughts. Try to understand why you have some negative thoughts (if you have them) and try to go back in the past, in order to identify where these thoughts come from. By doing this, you isolate your thoughts and you become more aware and responsible about what is happening into your mind.
Ask yourself: "What do I have to do not to have this thought? How can I make it positive?"
When you become aware of your thoughts, you start regaining control on your mind. This means you are able to self-control, to think about the things you love, which you enjoy and you are grateful for. There can be simple things, like being alive, taking a fresh air breath, enjoying nature etc.
Set yourself targets!
Setting yourself targets is one of the most important aspects of the Law of Attraction to attract what you want into your life. Setting solid targets in your mind, you will put to work the forces of the nature and Universe immediately.
But first:
1. Accept what you have now.
2. Be more aware of your thoughts.
3. Ask yourself questions related to your negative thoughts and perceptions, when they occur.
4. Look for the positive lesson you have to learn from a negative situation.
5. Make your mind think about the things you enjoy the most, which you are grateful for and you think are beautiful.
Haven't you noticed that when you really want a thing, such as a certain car and you think about it all the time, you see that thing everywhere? Anywhere you go, you will notice it as never before. This is the basis level of the Law of Attraction.
You are like a radar, once you have a plan in your mind, your energy starts to transmit a signal. When something appears to help you fulfill your goal it is "seen" by your interior radar. You will start noticing many opportunities in order to reach your goal.
Targets are very important in order to be focused and motivated.
Visualizing
With a solid and well-defined mentally goal, you can start visualizing it. Visualizing is very important and is an effective tool which helps you focus your mind and make your wish solid, and with repetition of this image, it will be planted in your unconsciousness very soon.
Imagine a scene and build around it - how will look like the ideal situation? Where this might happen? Act as you already have it. Act as if it is reality.
How would it be to feel what you want?
You visualize by feeling and remembering the emotion every time.
What would you do in that moment?
Where would you be in that moment?
What type of people would you be surrounded by?
How would sound the conversations you have with these people?
Try to visualize more what you really want.
You can do it anywhere you want. Lie down, close your eyes and start visualizing what you want to happen. The best moments to visualize can be in the morning before getting up or in the evening when you go to bed.
Affirmation
Start to be aware about what you say about yourself, which means you are in control of your mind and thoughts. Here are some examples of positive powerful thoughts:
1. I am successful in everything I do.
2. I am in control of the energy inside me and I can use that energy how I want.
3. Money comes to me easily, from many sources and regularly.
4. I can get what I want, because I access my power and wisdom I own.
5. I am not my body, but a consciousness inside me. I am connected to everything around me.
This means not to be very attached to certain ideas, but to be confident that you will reach your goal. For example, if you want a new job and you are called for the interview. You know what type of job you want, you started making affirmations and feel positive vibes about that job, but still you don't get that job for certain reasons. Then you will start asking yourself: "What went wrong? The correct method to see this situation is saying: "OK, it wasn't a good time. There is a better opportunity waiting for me. I trust my abilities in this domain, is just a matter of time."
Gratitude
Gratitude is part of the Law of Attraction, but is also a part of the feeling to make you happy and healthy in general. Take yourself more time to think all the things you are grateful for in this world.
Be confident
You have to be self-confident in what you want, or nothing will work as you wish. Trust in yourself and the supreme forces which govern everything around us.
Without faith you won't get what you want in life
Due to the fact that the Law of Attraction is energy, and everything in this world is energy which reacts in different ways, depending on the way we treat it, it means you permanently create signals into the world, conscious or unconscious.
That is why... it is very important to send positive vibes, meaning to be a positive person almost all the time.
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