Showing posts with label feel positive. Show all posts
Showing posts with label feel positive. Show all posts

Boundless and Free

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Every now and then it is good to evaluate if you feel that you are living a lucky life. If the answer to that question is yes, than by all means continue living the path you are on. However, if you answered no to feeling lucky, then perhaps it is time to rethink the direction you are going. Luck is defined by the Merriam-Webster dictionary as "a force that brings good fortune or adversity" When the majority of life events that happen feel positive, then a person feels lucky. On the other hand, a person may feel unlucky when more bad than good things happen. However, this is a very shallow way of viewing situations. I like the title of Tom Brokaw's book, which was written after he was diagnosed with a rare form of cancer. He named it: "A lucky Life Interrupted". The book title implies that for the most part, life has been lucky, but now there is something going on that is unpleasant to deal with, that feels unlucky but, that his luck will return. But perhaps this cancer scare actually was the luckiest thing that ever happened to him.

Why do I say this? Because I believe we are here to wake up to our spiritual selves and to transmute any notion that we are simply these bodies, minds and personalities as a myth we were taught that is not true. We are vast and expansive beings who existed before birth and will continue to exist beyond death. We are here on Earth to open both our hearts and our minds to our greater consciousness. Perhaps the gift of cancer helped Tom Brokaw to connect more deeply with his family and to find more of who he is beyond his work. Loss of health, wealth, friends, fame or intellect can be a blessing rather than a curse. When we are able to shout to the universe as spiritual teacher Matt Kahn says "Use me as your vessel of consciousness. Light and love and take all that you want" we are putting aside our definitions and ideas of what we want or need to feel or look good, and instead open to our infinite selves, trusting the process of the universe.

When I shift my consciousness to this larger lens, I am able to reframe bad things as gifts from the soul. Matt Kahn said in an inspirational talk, "Adversity comes into our lives to take and take and take. So that once you have nothing to lose, spiritual awakening has the room to move into you and wake up the entire universe within the space of your body." In this frame of mind, adversity or bad luck is not seen as bad, but rather as a benevolent conduit to enable a person to let go and open up to the magnificence of their soul self which is beyond how many houses they own, degrees they have, how perfect their body looks, or who they are connected to.

We are here to be free, not trapped in this human illusion of life. For us to be free, we have to be willing to lose everything we have to the spiritual fire of our divine consciousness. We must release our bondage and attachment to external means of identification like money, health, relationships and pride associated with self, family, friends, work and service. Who we truly are is greater than all these and just like the wave returns to the ocean, our soul returns to the sea of consciousness, boundless, wild and free.

Our lives may be far luckier than we ever realized if we could simply see through our soul's lens. Next time you hear yourself saying "Oh darn, how unlucky!" remember to give thanks for the blessing of another false part of your true self being purged away and celebrate the opportunity to release what is not really you. You deserve to live a lucky life and this includes both good fortune and adversity.



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Learn To Persevere, Be An Optimist


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Shri Krishna said to Arjuna in the consecrated Mahabharata, "Na Dainyam, Na Palayanam", implying that one should never escape from his problems in life, and never even quit or bow to their enemies. According to Him, once you build a will to do something, and decide not to back out on your mind, body or spiritual level, you have already won the life battle. Focus only on your goal while overpowering your biggest enemies - Lust, Anger, Greed and Extreme Attachment - and you are half way through.

Have you ever thought that this small, but priceless Mantra conferred by Yogeshwar Shri Krishna holds true to each and every field in life? Yes! Even in the corporate world.

Persevere

What does it need for you as leaders to succeed in the corporate world? Before anything, it's your Attitude. The attitude to keep going! Once you develop that, you need a passion to follow your dreams. Perseverance is the key to achieving your dreams and aims. If you are a newbie in your sphere, it's important. If you are an employee, it's important. If you are an entrepreneur, it's important. And if you are a leader, it's again important.

If you're wondering why, the reason is that challenges and failures are part and parcel of all these jobs. Every person, no matter what position he is at, needs to build that much-required resilience in them. And that needs work. You have to train your brain to make it learn how to remain positive and focused on the goal in one and all situations.

The challenge is to stay on the course irrespective of the storm

Of course, be it a fresher, or a budding entrepreneur, or anyone else; everyone requires to have a sense of positivity. Since, everyone's aim is ultimately to lead in their lives for a long term. But, it is a real big challenge for those playing the role of a leader in a business. These people are the ones who need to take others along with them while moving ahead in their careers. So, how does a leader's sanguinity help?

There are three things:

1. Productivity - The first onus on the shoulders of a leader is to ensure productivity at the end of their subordinates. A positive and happy environment will anytime help augment the productivity level of employees. In fact, they become more creative and energetic. Enthusiasm is directly proportional to productivity. If you, as a leader, are happy and enthusiastic, your energy will spread among your team like fire. If you are determined, it will be as easy as it sounds. All you need to do is maintain your cheerful attitude in different situations to make your people feel the same. It will make you and your team face any challenge that comes your way.

2. Constant Learning - Discover your power to keep fighting and going - come what may - by always keeping a learning attitude. You might feel sometimes that the pressure is a lot to handle. But, at the same time, you need to remember that Church ain't out till they quit singing. Keep trying different things until and unless you come to know what works the best. Forget how many times you failed; focus on the one opportunity that's still left.

Remember how Nokia lost the game eventually? The CEO of the company, Stephen Elop was literally into tears while delivering his speech. And all he could say was, "We didn't do anything wrong, but somehow, we lost". 'We lost', which means he simply gave up to his dreams.

And how Blackberry couldn't make it up to the next level? It's not that the technology was too old or something. But, it's all an adaptability game. If one just cannot learn to adapt to the newest trends, one must forget about the advantage they had yesterday.

Both the companies simply only needed to comprehend the rage. They failed due to lack of competence and moreover, the will to improve themselves.

On the other hand, Apple could also go bankrupt years ago. But, did Steve Jobs cede, or did he look for a way to survive in their market? Or rather, to stand apart from the crowd? Well! Even though Jobs was fired from Apple, he returned and tried everything until he made the firm create a niche in the market, while turning the iPod used to encourage people to purchase Macintosh computers into a completely different product range. In fact, he went ahead with developing modern phones under the brand understanding the demand of that epoch. This attitude of him to focus on what customers need, and more importantly, to keep moving on and persisting helped him make Apple a successful brand capable of competing against the other top brands of today like Microsoft and Google. Creativity and buoyancy were the essence, though.

3. Positive air is charismatic - Do you yourself like to be surrounded by those who radiate negative vibes? Certainly, not. How will you be able to attract people around you, then, if you are not positive and proactive? So, there you go. Keep an encouraging and smiling gesture always to grow as a good and successful leader.

Be an Optimist Once and For All

During good times, anyone can feel positive. But it is a big deal to remain optimistic during hard times. Positivity certainly doesn't imply that you have to run away or get rid of any kinds of failures. Running away or quitting is just not an option, never. In fact, the idea is to accept the failures that you encounter on your path, and learn and grow out of them with a positive outlook.

Sakshi has thoroughly researched the topic and written this article to help with self-improvement of people in the corporate world.



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Manifestation Is A Powerful Tool For Personal Growth



Manifestation is the result of your thoughts. Sounds simple if you are already a manifestation student but do you really believe it and live by it.

What we focus on expands, so what are you manifesting?

Why not stop and think about it, what you are manifesting right now.

How do you feel about what you are manifesting and do you feel like it is your creation?

You may have some doubts about this but you are already an expert at manifesting?

Just look at everything around you and all the experiences that you have been having.

If we can move forward from that belief that we are already creating the things that are in front of us, we can also think that it is possible to change what we are manifesting.

So if manifestation is a given, then how do we change what we are manifesting.

Focus on what you want: Focus on the feelings of what you want and feel positive about it, positive about having it, feel good in your body and emotions.

The opposite of this is to focus on not having it and that we should have it. This is an important point so think about this for awhile. Think back to the experiences that you have had and how you felt about those things before they were delivered. Think about things that came easy and things that were difficult. Use your own experiences to take this point to a deeper level deeper.

Start to take inspired action towards having what you want. Inspired action means to take action with awareness of how it makes us feel as we move towards having what we want.

Taking action with awareness allows us to know when we are coming across some limiting beliefs and to recognize the negative voice that tells us to stop or change direction.

The simplest method to follow when we hit a negative belief, it to just ignore it and replace it with a positive one. This may take some repetition but it is well worth it.

There are plenty of other techniques for belief change which can be used at a later stage. Starting the ball rolling is the most important thing at first.

Continue to take action with awareness and you will know when you making the decisions that will support what you want. If you get off track just laugh and get back on again.

Choose what resources you would like to help you and stay aware for their delivery.

Personal growth is a lot about knowing who we really are and using conscious manifestation is a great tool to learn a lot about ourselves. When you master conscious manifestation you will also realize at a deeper level that it was really you who created all those experiences.

Enjoy your manifestations!


5 Ways to Get Plus Size Confidence (By Brian Ka)


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We have all heard the old saying that beauty comes from within, and that applies in particular to the plus size woman. It's not that these women can't be beautiful on the outside because many of them are. However, it is sad that many of them don't feel beautiful on the outside and lack confidence. How you look impacts how you feel, and how you feel affects how powerful you are at work and play. If you are not excited about your outward appearance, that makes you feel less powerful.

So what are you supposed to do in the midst of the journey, while you are becoming while you are working to help your outside match your inside? Shrink and hide from the world? We think not. It's important to reach consistently within to connect with the things that make you feel incredible and unstoppable. As most people would say, the work on the 'inner you' is more important than the work on the 'outer you.' Have you ever met someone who was physically beautiful but... you can finish that sentence. I bet you have. Having beauty that comes from the inside means that you have qualities that are magnetic and draw people to you. When people find you attractive from a deep place, you will automatically seem to be (and will feel) more beautiful on the outside.

The first thing that most women need to feel beautiful and powerful is kindness. When I say kindness I mean being nice to people and seeing things in a positive light. If a woman is negative, she'll usually have a frown on her face, which isn't attractive to others. However, when someone has a kind spirit, you can see it in the glow on her face and her eyes. She'll have a smile on her face that gives you a hint about who she is inside. This is the type of woman that is fun to be around. This principle remains the same for a plus size woman; when she is kind to others and also kind to herself, it impacts how she views the world, and how the world sees her.

A sense of humor is an ingredient that can make any woman feel more confident. It's always good to look at the funny side of life or to find humor in mundane things. If you can't think of something every day that's funny, seek the laugh out. Haven't laughed in a while? Watch the Big Bang Theory- We dare you! If you can watch my favorite nerds and not laugh, we need a personal coaching session. (Knock, knock, knock, Penny!) Read a funny book, listen to a classic comedian on CD. You get the idea. If your funny muscle needs a workout, develop it and see if that doesn't make you more confident, whatever your size.

Every woman has something that makes her unique no matter what it is. To that end, she should spend time nurturing her talents and skills. This in a long way builds up a person's confidence, and in making you seem more beautiful from the inside out. When you talk about the things that you are passionate about or that you're interested in, you inevitably have a different energy and a twinkle in your eyes that are very attractive. Don't focus so much on your current state, invest time in creating the woman you want to become.

Also, find it a mandatory fact that you need to upgrade your fashion taste. Most plus size ladies lack confidence due to the reason that they don't give attention to what they wear. It is the one of our five tips today in boosting your confidence. So what if you don't have any idea about fashion or probably don't know where to begin. They will give you a unique guide to what goes well appropriately when it comes to the fashion world for plus size fashion.

One more tip to help develop confidence is not to sweat the small stuff. It might sound cliche because it is, but there are many things in life that people, particularly women worry about that at the end of the day simply aren't that important. Every day is a new day to start over. Instead of wasting time and energy worrying about the past, accept that you can't change the past, and then work on your future with the intention to create the tomorrow you want. I want to give you permission to stop apologizing for wherever you are in life and let the bolder, more powerful and more confident you come out to play.

"Life is too short to try to convince people to be aware of who you are and the value that you bring. ~ Les Brown."

What did WE miss? What else boosts your confidence? Let me know.

Have a POWERFUL day,

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