Showing posts with label fear of the unknown. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fear of the unknown. Show all posts

Esoteric Is Anathema Of Love


Some of us experience our world from the inside out. Rising from the deepest depth to the highest pinnacle. That journey is not easy but it is entertaining, it is challenging and its worth. People would enter you lives making you realize tones of things. Some of it can be wrong and some right. It is the pure circle of life. A thing that was always yours others will tend to make you realize, but only you have the power to witness and bring it out.

That power shall last for years to come when you are no more. The memories you give to people will be graceful, vindictive, sullen or painful. Whatever form they may take, they would be yours and you would be engraved on their minds forever. They would remember you when the last half an hour of their bed time will remain. Unless you are a soldier of solitude and prefer to die unnoticed you will keep a mark on people's minds.

Our life is an encounter with perils of darkness. We experience lose and injuries but it should not deter your path from where you wish to live. Remember it is you who choose and build your destiny and no one else. People will guide you, love you, cherish you and support you but in the end you are the lone fighter of the battlefield. So, just be happy and feel free with the ones who love and respect you. Encounters with predators would be grim and evil but none shall have the power to destroy that flame within you.

There is no perfect conclusion to how beauty is perceived by a person or an animal. We do not know as the word itself holds various definitions. Beauty is not perfect; it does not hold any shape or name. Look at our life which is full of small and big things. We have a heart to love and mind to work. Pain is beautiful, suffering is beautiful, winning is beautiful and even death is beautiful. Death is definitely intoxicating because it holds fear of unknown. We haven't experienced it in its real way so it remains unidentified. It touches our senses in the most mystical way. So cherish anything that bestows you with real happiness and strengthens the power within you. You won't be afraid anymore to lose or win once you are ready for anything.

People who love from within their deepest spirit will never dread anything. Only a true warrior of love will never be afraid to have and witness wrinkles. For them, beauty is a whirlpool of emotion, intellect, perception of life and ability to solve intense problems. The ones with a happy heart and feelings would stay catchy and captivating forever.

Esoteric is anathema of love. When you gain the power of experiencing and witnessing the universe from your spirit you will come out as a beautiful warrior appreciates the good and evil with equal perception of beauty.



http://ezinearticles.com/?Esoteric-Is-Anathema-Of-Love&id=9839743

The Wisdom of Letting Go of Control


We are living in a complex world. The more we strive to solve our problems, the more problems we create for ourselves in the process. Where do our problems come from? They come from the human mind, which creates individual problems for each and every one of us. Instead of solving our own problems, which are often insoluble, we sometimes even strive to solve the problems of others around us, deluding ourselves into believing that solving the problems of others will somehow solve those of our own. Nothing could be further from the truth. Solving others' problems, or even those of our own, is no more than "controlling" what happens in our lives. We are living in an ever-changing world, and any change will create new problems. Therefore, solving our current problems does not mean that there will not be more problems to come. After all, perception of problems is always in the mind, and it is always mind over matter.

Control is basic human instinct. Out of fear of the unknown, our ancestors living as early as in the Stone Age strove to control their environment in order to survive, and thus developing the fight-or-flight human instinct.

As humans, we often want to control everything in our own lives. The irony of control is that the more we strive to control, the more stress we create for ourselves. The anticipation of stress, for example, often puts us in an alert system, producing stress hormones. We then have to make some life choices--choosing this and avoiding that, often leading to regret and disappointment. Expectation of the anticipated result further intensifies the stress, often making us do more than what is necessary to guarantee the expected result. Over-doing is stressful in itself.

Human life journey is challenging with its many problems that are often beyond human control: such as loss of physical health, vision, mobility, and memory; material loss, such as loss of property from natural disaster, downsizing or moving to a nursing home; loss of loved ones, such as separation, death and bereavement. The problem is that we have too many attachments to the past and the present in the physical world that we are reluctant to let go of. Control is synonymous with holding on. Attachment is your emotional dependence on things and people that define your identity or ego-self, around which you wrap your happiness and even your survival. To maintain and sustain that ego-self, you want to exert control over everything and everyone around you. Control is a sign of fear and insecurity--something you must learn to let go of, just as the best-selling author Thich Nhat Hanh once said: "Letting go gives us freedom and freedom is the only condition for happiness." Let go of control to let God take over; after all, He controls everything and everyone in this world. Give yourself that freedom to live your life as if everything is a miracle.

The bottom line: when confronted by any problem in life, do what you can with what you have, and let go of control to let God do the rest. Embrace anything that happens in your life--be it good or bad; pleasant or unpleasant--and be either a student or a teacher in that learning experience.


http://ezinearticles.com/?The-Wisdom-of-Letting-Go-of-Control&id=9493388

Top of Mind: This Is How to Reinvent Yourself

Reinvention is scary, but anyone who wants to change can. Here are 5 ways to do it. 
Photo Of Woman Wearing Yellow Top


Reinventing yourself can sometimes be a conscious move, or it can be something you just stumble upon. The best advice I can give is take advantage of that opportunity. The biggest difference between people who “do” and those who “don’t” is a matter of simply going for it.
Chris Vaughn, CEO and founder of Saucey
When people want to reinvent themselves or move forward, they need first and foremost to be brave and know that they can do it. If they work hard, network, hustle and continue believing in their vision, it’s absolutely possible to make pivots and bring ideas to life. When people tell me they “don’t know how I do it” (which happens all the time), I tell them that anyone who wants to can do it. Just commit and dive in.
Catherine Merritt, CEO and co-founder of MUMZY
I think it’s important to recognize that reinvention, whether personal or professional, can be scary. Often people think it happens overnight. Let me tell you, it happens over many sleepless nights. Most people have some level of fear of the unknown and stepping outside their comfort zones. I believe being honest with yourself about strengths, weaknesses and what you’re truly passionate about are keys to making big life changes.
Kerry O’Brien, founder and designer of Commando
It’s very much about with whom you choose to surround yourself. It’s no mistake that I spend time with people who love to learn, share and build. They don’t settle for anything less than great. They’re organized, open-minded and have high standards for everything they do. So seek out peers who solve problems, remain positive through challenges and take risks.
Heather McGough, co-founder of Lean Startup Co.
Follow your bliss! Think about what’s not working in your current job and think about all the things that would be ideal for you. Make a list and live with it. Soon you’ll start to figure out how to make money off of the things that genuinely excite you.
Chris Young, author
http://www.success.com/article/top-of-mind-this-is-how-to-reinvent-yourself

Freedom Is: Doing What You Want to Do!


How many times have you thought, yes, I'd like to do that, but I couldn't because... What stops us doing what we want to do, is it fear of the unknown? How different our lives would be if we actually did some of those things. Perhaps its time to experience a few simple things you've always dreamed of.

Why not begin with some small things, an amazing holiday, perhaps learning to ski? A completely new wardrobe in a new colour palate or style, you could introduce items a few at a time. Maybe a new way of spending weekends; or changing your eating habits for a healthy Mediterranean diet, or some other secret wish.

If your dream is much bigger it will need some serious thought and planning. First be sure you know what you want, there is a saying - "be careful what you wish for it might just happen". Secondly don't rush off on a tangent, only act after you have given an exciting idea some serious consideration. Take time to plan how you can execute your dream as a step by step plan. This gives you time to envisage living your dream and a chance to make any changes to the initial idea.

A number of years ago we decided we hated cold winters, so we started to consider the benefits of living abroad and started looking at places where we would like to live. However we don't like the cold neither did we like Mediterranean summers they are too hot for us to feel comfortable.

Meanwhile I decided to develop my entrepreneurial spirit and learn more about the internet. I had previously joined internet membership websites and built a few websites of my own. So things began taking shape I would learn internet marketing which I could work at anywhere with a laptop and internet connection. This would help to fund our venture, and give me an interesting paying hobby, whilst my partner enjoys sport. How big it will develop depends on the time and effort I invest, I love spending time developing it and watching it grow in popularity.

Last summer we bought a large static mobile home sited near fishing lakes in a quiet part of Lincolnshire for us to spend our summers in. We chose Lincolnshire as my partner has friends and family in the area, also my elderly Mother lives nearby, an important consideration. In fact we spent many long sunny weekends there last summer.

Meanwhile we have decided on Spain as our winter destination, found a house near the beach on the edge of a typical Spanish town and are in the process of selling the house here and buying in Spain. So all it takes is some serious thought, a good plan, some effort and a bit of luck and it can all come together.

What is your Dream? Make it happen, take charge of your life.

It's not nearly as scary when taken step by step as part of a plan. You have time to make adjustments along the way.

In a few months time we expect to be spending the summer by the fishing lakes and by the autumn we expect to be living in Spain, with maybe a few summer visitors renting the house in Spain in the meantime. It's all looking pretty good and appears to be falling into place.

Now if one of your dreams is fulfilling an entrepreneurial spirit by running your own on-line business, so that when you are ready to semi-retire you can live anywhere you fancy; by the lakes, the beach, and a choice of many countries, now is the time to begin. Start now and build a hobby business whilst you are in paid employment.

Either develop an existing hobby or learn something new. Start small and expand your business when you have honed your skills and are ready to retire. You will have a great interest that you have developed. Once your business is completely set up and functioning fully it requires relatively simple maintenance leaving lots of spare time to live your life to the full.

Life is full of surprises you will be amazed at what you can achieve if you decide what you want; put your mind to work to achieve it, together with some determination and energy, and you will see your idea flourish and fulfil your dreams.

So I will close wishing you an exciting fulfilling future.