Showing posts with label changing yourself. Show all posts
Showing posts with label changing yourself. Show all posts

Highlighting Positives Within The Law of Attraction

When you look at self-improvement as a whole, you're going to be littered with solutions. There's no "one" thing that works best. There's a lot of things that can work, and many people are finding this through the Law of Attraction. This is a way of thinking that goes beyond simple tasks, it can create outstanding results. For instance, one of the main benefits is in regards to coming into a lot of money. While this may sound insane at first glance, you'll find that it's just a starting line that is worth exploring on a bigger picture.

Attracting Positivity

Think about the infectious nature of a smile. When you are smiling, it seems like the whole world will oblige in returning this for you. You're going to find that few people are going to have a disdain for this, and it shows with everyone that has a positive element in their lives. There's a beauty in smiling and being happy, and it comes with positivity. That same principle that causes this notion to be infectious is the same thing that you are going to be pursuing within the notion of attraction. However, attraction in the law is something that goes out to the universe, and returns dividends that are not just physical.

Changing Yourself For The Better

Right now, many people are fighting to get a semblance of self-esteem. They aren't feeling good, they lack confidence, and aren't really sure how to progress in the right arenas. That can be changed by looking at the silver lining in life, and chasing positive elements. The more you work with positivity, the better you're going to be at enjoying the fruits of your labor. Changing things for the better starts with looking at what you're thankful for, and then building on that over time. You'll find that changing for the better is an easy thing to get done, if you just focus on listing things out with a pen and paper.

Avoiding Negativity

The best thing that comes with the Law of Attraction is in regards to casting aside negative things. You don't want to surround yourself with this. This is a sure fire way to decrease happiness, and cause a lot of issues to rise up within your mind, and body. If you've never tried to fight this before, this is your chance to shake things up. The more you chase different paths, the better you are going to feel inside, the more your mood will elevate, and the better your life will become.

At the end of the day, you are going to find that attraction is not a singular thing. It's something that encompasses a whole different world view. Take time to focus on the bigger picture and you are going to see a huge jump in your path towards freedom from negative elements. This all starts with recognizing that you control a lot more than you give yourself credit for, and then goes into a full changing scale.



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No One Can Change Our Life Except Us


Change is hard. Really hard. You must be uncomfortable to make a change. Get real with yourself. The good part about this is that with enough dedication and willpower, you can change every aspect of yourself and create a new version of "who you are". But can anyone do it?

A person is still young, learning new things and changing drastically. As infants, we are focused on learning the basics. In the end, we enter adulthood with more or less a firm structure of ourselves - our "first persona". Sadly, most people never change their first persona because they believe it's "who they are" and that changing yourself in any way is blasphemy or peer pressure. Quite the opposite, that's a loser's approach. Your first persona is your first try.

And like with anything, your first try is never the best. As a matter of fact, it's usually the worst. If you want to dress better, learn about style. If you want to quit smoking, make it a priority. It doesn't have anything to do with intelligence, simply with habits. Aside from that, many other factors can be an influence.

As a rule, these sorts of changes don't occur overnight. They take time and effort. Most of us also know from hard-won experience, though, that when it comes to making significant changes, launching ourselves into action is often harder than it sounds, and less productive than we hoped. In fact, it turns out that "just doing it" before you are emotionally ready and properly prepared to take on a particular goal may be one of the fastest ways to sabotage your success.

Lasting change rarely occurs as the result of a single, ongoing decision to act. More often, change evolves from a subtle, complex and sometimes circuitous progression which involves thinking, hesitating, stepping forward, stumbling backward, and, quite possibly, starting all over again.

But if you've been striving to put your own change efforts into perspective, understanding your "readiness to change" may very well be a step in the right direction. People underestimate the benefits of changing and overestimate the cons or costs. But they're not particularly conscious of that, so it's not a focused, rational decision-making process.

Weighing the pros and cons of a behavior is an important component of CHANGE. Thinking about making a change is what gets people used to the idea of actually making it. You should make a change - but you're not seriously considering doing anything about it anytime soon. It may take a scary test result or a major life event to get you motivated to start thinking differently about your prospects for change. Meanwhile, recognize that by just thinking about it has potential value, too, and can help open your mind to new possibilities.

In our world, we are the center of it. Everything we know and experience involves our existence. The fact is that our world exists within a sad reality - Only US can make a change of our LIVES.

Challenge yourself. Dare to make a change in your life by following your goals instead of comparing yourself with others. Change depends on YOU.


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Highlighting Positives Within The Law of Attraction



When you look at self-improvement as a whole, you're going to be littered with solutions. There's no "one" thing that works best. There's a lot of things that can work, and many people are finding this through the Law of Attraction. This is a way of thinking that goes beyond simple tasks, it can create outstanding results. For instance, one of the main benefits is in regards to coming into a lot of money. While this may sound insane at first glance, you'll find that it's just a starting line that is worth exploring on a bigger picture.

Attracting Positivity

Think about the infectious nature of a smile. When you are smiling, it seems like the whole world will oblige in returning this for you. You're going to find that few people are going to have a disdain for this, and it shows with everyone that has a positive element in their lives. There's a beauty in smiling and being happy, and it comes with positivity. That same principle that causes this notion to be infectious is the same thing that you are going to be pursuing within the notion of attraction. However, attraction in the law is something that goes out to the universe, and returns dividends that are not just physical.

Changing Yourself For The Better

Right now, many people are fighting to get a semblance of self-esteem. They aren't feeling good, they lack confidence, and aren't really sure how to progress in the right arenas. That can be changed by looking at the silver lining in life, and chasing positive elements. The more you work with positivity, the better you're going to be at enjoying the fruits of your labor. Changing things for the better starts with looking at what you're thankful for, and then building on that over time. You'll find that changing for the better is an easy thing to get done, if you just focus on listing things out with a pen and paper.

Avoiding Negativity

The best thing that comes with the Law of Attraction is in regards to casting aside negative things. You don't want to surround yourself with this. This is a sure fire way to decrease happiness, and cause a lot of issues to rise up within your mind, and body. If you've never tried to fight this before, this is your chance to shake things up. The more you chase different paths, the better you are going to feel inside, the more your mood will elevate, and the better your life will become.

At the end of the day, you are going to find that attraction is not a singular thing. It's something that encompasses a whole different world view. Take time to focus on the bigger picture and you are going to see a huge jump in your path towards freedom from negative elements. This all starts with recognizing that you control a lot more than you give yourself credit for, and then goes into a full changing scale.

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7 Reasons To Feed Your Curiosity


Curiosity is an admirable trait I encourage everyone to cultivate within one’s self. Curiosity is the ability to wonder and ask questions, and then have the courage and willingness to seek out the answers and experiences to satiate that wonder.
Perhaps you are a very curious person, but you’ve grown up in a society that looks down on everything unconventional and so you’ve hidden your curiosity or have convinced yourself that it is no longer appropriate for you to be curious anymore. Most adults assume they “know everything”; they limit their own growth by snuffing out the light of their curiosity. Such a shame! They do so because their age (society’s conventions) dictates what behavior is appropriate. If you’re an adult, you’re supposed to “have it all figured out”. Being curious is the humility, willingness and openness to say, “Yes, I don’t know, but I would like to.”
Curiosity is good for your spirit. And I’m going to elaborate on why.

1) You become more intelligent.

I’ve made it a habit where if I don’t understand something and I’m in the vicinity of someone who might know, I always ask. Before, I equated asking with being stupid. A harsh belief, but it’s more commonly adopted than you think! People just don’t like admitting it. If you don’t ask, you will never know! Those who are afraid of asking questions are ashamed of acquiring knowledge.
More often than not, the people around you, (let’s say you were with a friend), didn’t know either. They were probably secretly wondering to themselves what “that thing” meant or how it worked, but were too afraid to speak up for themselves. And if they do know, they can tell you!
It’s not a big deal. Life is about learning. Learning is life. Ask away!

2) You have new experiences.

Have you ever wondered what it would feel like if you went for a walk without shoes? Or what your artistic skills were like if you sat outside for a bit and painted a scene of the passing clouds? Or if you talked to a certain person? Or if you took a different route home? Or if you went into that store that has always tantalized you? Or if you ordered something different? Or if you tried a new exercise? Or if you read about a new philosophy? Or if you hung out with different people you usually hang out with? Or if you lived in another part of the world for a few months? What would life be like?
Only one way to find out! Go do it!

3) You find your way in this life.

To ask questions, you must first become aware of life. You must become aware of your surroundings. What’s going on? What’s right and what isn’t? Why does it have to be this way? Are there any other ways? What is truth? Why are we alive? What is the point? Is there a point?
Once you start to become aware of life, the questions naturally flow. Once you start asking questions—TRULY START TO ASK QUESTIONS—then your journey has begun. You are now (consciously) on your way.
SEEK AND YOU WILL FIND.
“Truth cannot be borrowed. It cannot be studied in books. Nobody can inform you about it. You have to sharpen your intelligence for yourself, so that you can look into existence and find it.” — OSHO

4) You destroy ignorance.

“Ignorance is bliss.”
Ignorance is spiritual death! Ignorance is like covering your experience of life in a blanket of lies. Although it is warm and comforting, it is a prison. You cannot grow. You cannot see. You cannot experience LIFE in all its magnificent glory. You remain trapped in your ignorant comfort; in your false knowledge, in your conditioning.
Ignorance must be overcome and we do so by having the courage to be curious.

5) You grow.

“Evolution is intrinsic to man’s nature, evolution is his very soul. And those who take themselves for granted remain unfulfilled; those who think they are born complete remain unevolved. Then the seed remains the seed, never becomes a tree, and never knows the joys of spring and the sunshine and the rain, and the ecstasy of bursting into millions of flowers.” — OSHO

6) You stand out.

Everyone subscribes to a code in this life; or what we most commonly refer to as the “norm” of society. Curiosity allows you to question the norm and whether it is sane or not, right for you or not, right for the world or not. And if it’s not, if you have the courage, you destroy that norm within you so that you can live your own truth.
Just because it’s “normal” (whatever that means), and everyone does it, doesn’t mean it’s right. Think for yourself. Decide for yourself. Live for yourself. Be hungry and curious for more.

7) You help change the world.

I learned the hard way that you cannot change the world by fighting against it. You can only change the world by changing yourself. Joseph Campbell once said that “if you really want to help this world, what you will have to teach is how to live in it”.
This is true. Oprah once said, “you transform the world when you transform yourself.” It’s the same universal concept that many successful and enlightened people have realized. And now, so have you.
How exactly do we change the world by being curious? By being courageous enough to let go of the “old” and have the willingness to bring the “new” into this world by embracing it, being it. We abolish old mentalities, beliefs, philosophies, ways of life, systems, by LIVING new mentalities, beliefs, philosophies, lifestyles, paradigms. And we can only do so by taking the first step to wonder. It transition automatically shifts but it is a slow process. Which is why we must all, individually have the courage to light the way if we are to make this world a better place.
It’s only by leading by example do people truly listen. We are able to know the path to a brighter future by “standing on the shoulders of our forefathers” who had the courage to light the way.
Curiosity is asking, What if? It’s wondering if there’s another way. It’s envisioning an
other way. And then making our way to that new vision.
There are many benefits to being curious. The most beneficial, in my opinion, is number three. You find your way in this life. Life can be like a kind of maze. Some people give up on themselves and stop searching for the red thread that leads to everything they could ever conceive of; they sit, stagnant in their sorrow. Then there are the others who continue to ask questions. What if I went this way? What if I did this instead? And it’s usually those same people who we think insane. “He’s going to go exploring and then he’s going to die. It’s much safer to stay right here.”
Then he goes off, experiences the world in all its glory, comes across all kinds of beautiful and magnificent treasures no one would believe if he told them, all because he asked, What if?