Showing posts with label painful. Show all posts
Showing posts with label painful. Show all posts

Understanding And Eliminate Anger

Anger characterizes our behavior from the moment we are born. We are constantly dissatisfied and we must face many problems in life. Everything for us is tiring and painful.

We believe that anger is a normal reaction, even though it can become a mental illness when it is exaggerated.

However, now that the satanic origin of the human conscience was discovered we know that there is a demon in our brain. Therefore, the truth is that we become angry for no reason. We already are angry by nature.

Now that we know this fact we have to stop believing that anger is a 'normal' reaction. If we didn't have a satanic anti-conscience we would only become sad with our problems. We wouldn't become angry.

Anger is a wild reaction.

If you will pay attention to the behavior of various animals you will verify that a lion becomes angry very easily, while a sheep is very calm. Why?

Because they have a different nature.

Lions are violent predators. They kill even animals that are many times bigger than them.

So, if you will see an angry lion somewhere, you won't be surprised. You know that lions are violent and dangerous creatures. They don't need a reason to become angry, even though they tend to become angrier when they are hungry or when they are hurt.

Exactly the same happens with human beings, since we are not really human. We are in fact violent primates that can think. Only a small percentage of our brain has human characteristics.

Most of our thoughts are rudimentary because we are ignorant, absurd, evil, and idiotic. This is why we believe that violence is indispensable in life.

Sometimes our anger becomes visible, but our thoughts and emotions usually are invisible. So, we can hide them from the world. We pretend that we are calm and happy even when we are angry and upset.

The truth is that we are absurd and evil vampires that pretend to be human in order to mislead their victims. This is why we smile and we seem to be reasonable, whereas we are as angry as lions most of the time.

This is why some people become serial killers who kill many other people without any reason, even though most of us commit crimes only once in a while for various reasons that seem to have a logical explanation because we think based on selfish criteria.

Our satanic nature was hidden from us by God because if we knew that we were cruel demons we wouldn't have the courage to learn the meaning of goodness. First of all we had to understand the meaning of goodness, at least theoretically, and believe that we can be good.

This is why we can see only what exists into our human conscience, which was created by God based on human standards. So, we don't know that we are demons with a tiny human conscience.

We don't interpret various signs of evilness in our behavior as if they were indications of evilness, but the truth revealed in our dreams and in the treatment of mental illnesses through dream translation is that we are very cruel.

Some people frequently get angry and frequently show their anger to the world, while other people seem to be more balanced, but everyone is basically a demon with a tiny human conscience that must be developed.

A demon never stops being dangerous, the same way that a lion never stops being dangerous, even when it seems to be calm.

In order to become really human we have to pass through a deep process of transformation. God sends us the mental health treatment we need in our dreams because He knows that we need His help.

God can transform a lion into a sheep but He cannot transform demons into human beings without our cooperation because we can think and make decisions.

We must logically understand the meaning of goodness and desire to follow God's philosophy of life because we can understand that it is better for us. We cannot be forced to agree with God.

God sends us numerous explanations and lessons in our dreams in order to help us understand that we must desire to attain sanctity in order to find sound mental health, peace, love, and happiness.


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Are You Able to Answer the Biggest Question?



"When you dance, your purpose is not to get to a certain place on the floor. It's to enjoy each step along the way."- Wayne Dyer

I love to learn. I love to read. If an idea or topic catches my attention and my gut says, "Yes, that one!", I dive in.

My heart races, my soul soars. I'm on fire and ready to soak it in.

Give me the book to read. Tell me what class to take. Who is my teacher? What lesson am I to learn? I'm ready! Let's go!

That's how it happens for me and that's how I ended up in the class, years ago now, which asked the big question -- What is your big why?

Who doesn't want to know that, I wondered? Wouldn't it make life so much easier to know the purpose, cause, or belief that inspires you and to wake up every day motivated to do it?

Sounded pretty darned good to me -- sign me up!

The class began with a number of simple, key questions to answer about our childhood. Easy enough to answer. But then, we went deeper.

We were asked to remember something in our lives that was painful or changed us forever -- what Dr. Phil calls, "A life defining moment!"

We were given ample time to recall and describe it -- to write it all down. As we did so, more questions were asked to help us peel away and reveal why this moment or event was so significant.

Why did it stick with us after all these years? What did it tell us about our purpose? How did it drive us in life?

Amazingly enough, these questions led directly to the answer we came to find out -- For what purpose was I intended?

And, to this day, I have not forgotten mine -- to right wrongs.

My antennae go up immediately when I sense, feel, or see a wrong. I can hardly contain myself to fix or correct it. I find myself looking for answers to make it right -- to solve the issue.

Once I figured out my purpose, it became obvious why I had picked particular careers in my life. Banking. Finance. CPA. Internal Auditor. Financial Counselor. All had some element of structured, well-defined rights and wrongs. Rules to follow. And, a clear line that gave warning when something was wrong.

It helped clarify my path in life and in my business-- to honor my purpose in all that I do. To say NO to anything that did not fit it. I have found that I fail if I try to do it another way -- or I am miserably unhappy.

It is the biggest question after all -- Why are you here? What is your BIG WHY?

It is more important than most of us recognize -- our souls know it and yearn for us to live it. In fact, research has shown that Knowing Your Purpose In Life Could Help You Live Longer. (Forbes Nov. 2014)

Yet, somehow we've lost track of why we are here. In all our "busyness", our focus has gotten narrowed on the aspects of day-to-day life. We grew up and in the process we let go of and forgot why we are here. We believed what we were told -- that it was time to be an adult and do grown-up things. Put aside those childish ways.

Sadly, we then left behind the essence of who we are -- we bought into the belief that it, too, is childish. We moved on to what we were taught "should" be our purpose, our goal, and life path.

We then end up believing our purpose are the roles we play in life -- mother, sister, wife, teacher, employee, manager, healer, coach, writer, artist, business owner, etc. Seldom is it your purpose.

And, there begins the agonizing trek back to finding it once again, revealing it to ourselves, and living fully into it. Many of us go to our deathbeds not ever rekindling that purpose consciously. It plays out in the background of our lives, calling to us, and yet, going unheard.

Isn't it time you asked the biggest question of all? WHY AM I HERE? I promise, there is an answer. And, it is a personal one just for you. No one else has the same one -- only you are here to express it.

It does affect all that you do. It guides you in all decisions and questions you may have. The best career path to take. Whether to marry or not. Am I meant to buy that house or live that lifestyle?

But, be sure to take Wayne Dyer's advice... "your purpose is not to get to a certain place... It's to enjoy each step along the way."


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How Do I Get Motivation to Be Successful?


So to get yourself motivated to be successful, you need to firstly decide what it is you really want, then work out which is stronger - gaining pleasure or avoiding pain. What will make you work harder? For example my goal is to fully work from home so I get to spend as much time as possible with my babies (2nd one due in 7 weeks!!) and earn good enough money for us to live comfortably and have a holiday every year. So the pleasure of seeing my children lots, being able to take them to and from school eventually and attend every assembly and sports day is great motivation for me.

But sometimes avoiding pain is actually a stronger motivator, for example if you have a job you cannot stand and work with people you don't get on with, or have to see your child upset every time you leave them at nursery, these feelings can push you to work so hard that you can end these painful circumstances.

Relating this technique to losing weight for example could offer the following statements - if I lose weight I'll fit in to my old size 10 dress (gaining pleasure) or if I don't lose weight I could end up having a heart attack (avoiding pain). So you have to decide which feels the stronger sensation to give you that motivation to succeed.

Think about your motivating factors and write down answers to the following questions:

What is/are your goal(s)? 
What are the things that will give you pleasure to attain these goals? 
What are the things that will cause you pain if you don't attain these goals? 
So find out which is stronger, avoiding pain or gaining pleasure and keep those thoughts in mind, or even write them somewhere so you can see them regularly to remind you!

So for example, with your home based business, your little ones are in bed and you could get on with some online training or do some income producing activity, but your favourite programme is on the TV, and you just need to do the washing up, then sort the washing, then tidy the lounge floor covered by toys and so on... STOP AND THINK about your motivating factors! You might say, by procrastinating like this I'm going to have to stay in a job I hate (avoiding pain) or if I stop procrastinating I'll get to spend more quality time with my children (gaining pleasure).

So you see what I mean, really focus on what will give you motivation! I wish you luck and all the best in your endeavours. Stay strong and get the motivation and keep consistent! Please do feel free to comment and let me know your goals and motivating factors as it's always great to share ideas.

Thank you for reading my article and I wish you all the success in the world!


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