"Funny, most folks "there" are waiting for a sign of sorts from folks "here," before they make a move, take action, or commit.
Let this be your sign,
There is never the right time or right place than NOW. Today is always the right time to do something. We always wait for a sign, or for some indication to make our next move. We will wait to have this before we do that, or we will expect to receive this so we can accomplish that. There is always that feeling of waiting for the perfect moment to take action. Guess what? IT WILL NOT COME. If you are a perfectionist, you may have some difficulties in accepting this statement. You may always want to wait for that PERFECT moment to come to make that life decision. How about going with the flow, surfing the wave of life and see where it takes you. I understand that the unknown can be scary, nevertheless, if you fear changes, you will never accomplish anything in life. Uncertainty is what makes living life so special. There is never a dull moment when you start something new and have no clue where it will take you. I agree that it can be helpful to know things ahead of time so you avoid wasting time doing the things that will not amount to anything. Just remember one thing. Every failure isn't a failure, it is a learning process that will give you the tools to avoid making similar mistakes. I am confident enough that every time I do something and I fail, I use that new found knowledge to accomplish bigger things in my life. There is never a moment where I can say: I regret I didn't go for it, or why didn't I do it and now, someone else took over my idea and is very successful. I go for what I believe and that is enough for me to pursue my goals and dreams.
Unfortunately for all of us, there is no manual that describes every moment of our past, present and future. God only have these needed details. However, God gave you the will and drive to do whatever you want, but it is up to you to make things happen. Free will to accomplish anything in your life without his divine intervention. You must assume all responsibilities of the choices you make and the actions you take. We all work hard towards reaching our goals in life, and that is for ourselves and family. We want to be successful but success has a different meaning for all of us. Some might say reaching material success is crucial in their life, others would prefer a successful marriage or family life and money is secondary. No matter what success means to you, it is still a drive for you to do the things you do today to make success happen. No one needs to justify themselves to anyone as it is no one's else business. You control your own thoughts and actions, so just keep on doing the same. If you feel something has to change, then just change it. Don't wait for that IDEAL moment as in most cases, it never really does. The reason is because the Universe is waiting on YOU to create that ideal moment with your enthusiasm and goal settings acumen. You built your own life as you move towards it. There is no secrets here. Your positive thinking is the foundation of creating the life that you want, the life that you desire the most. So go out there, take action and work on knowing that signs are EVERYWHERE, and that it is up to you to open your eyes and start looking at what is in front of you. The horizon will always appear up front, never on the back.