Being certain about someone or something ensures that you take a step to the next level. However, when uncertainty is on the cards, decision-making can be arduous. Ergo, it is necessary to make a decision based on reason rather than impulse.
When making a career choice, you must make sure that you factor in various aspects like the role, content, salary, long-term goals, etc. If you do not consider any of these and more, you will wind yourself in knots seeking the opportune time for a job change that does not lower your career graph.
Being a part of a friends circle makes life chipper, for sure, but cracks do emerge. When you feel the tension, iron out the problem and move on. A sensitive topic should be tackled with care so that you do not step on anyone's toes. For instance, religion is a subject that most people avoid, ditto with issues relating to one's family.
Marriage as an institution must be factored in with care. The person who you choose to be with for the rest of your life has to be on the same page as you. Nothing is as interesting, in a relationship, than when you agree to disagree. Work on mistakes prior to the 'I do' and you may never wonder why you did.
Being nasty has taken center stage in various facets of life. You have a choice here, deal with the nasty head on or ignore the barbs and get on. The bottom line is that you must be happy with your decision. If you are, no matter what anyone throws at you, you will be able to get by, because at the end of the day, you know who you are, period.
In sum, we come across a variety of situations and people in life. The choice of dealing with the situation or the person is in your hands. You can crib about how life has dealt you with heavy blows or how someone has been nasty or ill-treated you. Alternatively, you can ignore the problem and/or find a solution that keeps you calm.
One basic rule that is imperative to follow is that the past is just that - over, when you dwell on it, you do not get a move on. Instead of being caught in a rut. Even if the present looks bleak, look ahead, because the future will bring you happier times.
Why do we do what we do and never take time off to think?
A decision is a choice that must be made based on reason rather than a sudden flash. A well thought out strategy always pans out down the line and is definitely worth the effort.