There are always people in life that we want to trust to verify our various decisions, to have a good relationship and bonding and on the overall, to be mutually benefited. But how do we form this magical trust with the people in our life? Read on for insights.
For instance, you have just entered office life and your Boss gave you a task. Complete it before the deadline and handover to him. Now that is called trust bonding. Perform like this several times and you will win his permanent trust in you.
How about your spouse? You just got married and have bought a home and are living together. How can you earn his full trust? Cook good recipes for a while, especially his favorite dishes and he will not only love them but also love you wholeheartedly.
How about your children? How can you earn their trust and make sure they are not lying or hiding something about their friends or any school events. Give them full attention and encourage them to talk. Have a lively conversation. Let them speak out their woes and concerns. Soothe and comfort them and suggest solutions for their problems. They will love you more instantly and there you have formed a well-deserving trust bond again.
Do you trust one or two of your favorite friends? Form friendship in your community or at work. You are likely to enjoy their company through sharing you life's stories- both good and bad. They can offer advice on your pressing problems and will always care to listen to you. You also help them in times of their need. That way a bonding of trust will form for which you will always be grateful.
When you have no one to hold on to, trust God and the Universe. He will help to bring good people in your life on whom you can anchor your faith and trust. They will help to ease out your problems and you will feel great and get back the mojo of life.
How do you persuade your students to excel in school if you are a teacher?Again you need a bonding of trust. Explain to them lucidly a good educational background will help them to climb up the ladder of success fast and quick. Repeat your lectures and explain in more lucid terms if they don't understand something. If majority of them do bad on a quiz, try to compensate for it in some way either by giving assignments or taking another extra quiz. That way the students will understand that you care about them and are committed to helping them out and naturally they will consider you to be their favorite teacher.
What about saleswomen? How do they convince customers to buy their products? Now everything can be ordered online. Post good reviews by people who have already purchased them online. Also when the customers come to the store, show good manners, courtesies and read-to-help attitude. That way you will gain more customers, and still more and more will prefer to buy your products.
Summing up, these are some of the great ways you can form a chain of trust with the people at home, work or marketplace and not only you but also the other party will benefit from this bonding. In fact, it is a case of mutual trust and you have much to celebrate as you keep creating them everywhere you go.