"It isn't easy at first but one of the greatest gifts you could ever give someone who makes your heart soar is the freedom to learn their own lessons, at their own pace.
Even trickier is discovering that one of the greatest gifts you could ever give someone who gets on your nerves is the freedom to learn their own lessons, at their own pace.
And perhaps most challenging of all is understanding that one of the greatest gifts you could ever give yourself is the realization that your heart soaring and your nerves fraying have never been dependent upon other people and their lessons.
Tallyho,
The Universe"
Many lives a codependent relationship with others and do whatever it takes to make others happy. We sometimes forget ourselves in the process just to make sure the other person won't get their feelings hurt. We sometimes live our lives to guarantee others happiness, at the expense of our own. We lose ourselves in someone's else dream or goals and that other person grows spiritually while we are left on the back burner. As our energy signature changes, our connection to that person does as well. Besides money problems or infidelity, married couples need to work extremely hard to keep that connection alive, and some couple fail doing so. They don't realize that, unlike the two main reasons for divorce occurs in many couple, when you lose connection with your significant other, you need to address the problem immediately. The good thing is those kind of problems are reversible. Losing connection is temporary, as long as you work on making personal and couple changes. Both have to be involved in the process or all is lost. You can't be the one growing at a regular pace and the other stagnates. Further you grow from that other person, more the disconnect will intensify. Do whatever you need to do to make changes, TOGETHER.
When two people get together, they have the right intention to stay together. No one wants to lose their kids with divorce or an ex that wants revenge because of past marital problems (infidelity or addictions). However, things like that do happen to many couples around the globe. Is there a solution? Definitely. Problems ONLY exist because the solution is already close by. Einstein said: " Problems cannot be solved by the same mind that created them". Pretty profound statement and true. If your mind creates a problem, you will be too consumed to find a solution, and if you do, the solution will never be optimal. Hence, the reason why married couple uses the help of therapist. A third eye perspective is needed in situations like this. To make relationship work, you need to be your own person, never be dependent on ANYONE and learn to accept yourself for who you are. Once you do that, people will learn to do the same for you.
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