The Question Should Be, "Why Not Me?" Rather Than, "Why Me?"

The question is - why not me rather than why me!

Have you ever said "why me"? Come on - be honest here - sooner or later everyone feels like some area of life has not been fair to them and their usual response is "why me or why now."

Why not look at these life situations or circumstances a little differently with a "why not me". Let me explain.

Think about it - no matter what has happened or how bad something seems, consider that there could possibly be someone in the world who has it worse. I could give your dozens of global statistics when it comes to poverty, sickness, death, the shortness of life, poor income etc. but I'm sure you are familiar with some of them unless you are totally immersed in yourself without a care in the world for anyone other than yourself. I'll give you one - over 795,000,000 people in the world suffer from hunger without enough food to sustain a healthy lifestyle. That's about one in nine people.

Are you one of them? I doubt it. But I'm sure you may have an idea where this article is going - if not - when you consider all of the disease, poverty, hunger etc. in the world I'll bet you don't face any of these every day so back to the title the question should be - why not me rather than why me in difficult circumstances?

I will focus on just three areas although there are many - careers and or business, general happiness and health.

Careers or business - The average income globally for individuals is $795/month. Are you making more than that? Thousands of people die every day due to hunger and disease. So, why are you whining? We spend over one third of our life working in our jobs or careers so if you do not have peace in your career - well - it's simple - one third of your life will be unfulfilling. I'll bet you know dozens of people who have been terminated or just lost their jobs to circumstances they couldn't control - are you one of them? If you are reading this - probably not.

Over 1500 businesses fail every day in the US - is yours one of them?

It's not complicated - I'll bet if you ask yourself a simple question - why not me rather than why me I'll wager that you will come to realize the many blessings you have in life every day. Over 40,000 people die in their sleep every day - are you one of them? Doubt it.

I have failed numerous times during my life but my response was always - OK what can I learn from this and what can I do now - not, poor me, life isn't fair, I don't deserve this or some other lame negative reaction. Ever failed at anything - what was your response - point the finger, get all stressed out or just have a pity party or did you just move on - smarter and wiser?

General happiness - Research indicates that only one in three Americans are happy and less than 50% of the population are happy in their careers or jobs. Happiness is not nor will ever be what you have, do or enjoy but the ability to be happy regardless of what life brings into your days and years. Happiness is a mindset and this is not who you are or what you have but your life philosophy.

If you want to be happy it won't happen with a bigger house, more money, nicer car or more toys or travel. Research over the years has proven time and time again - money, wealth, power, fame or stuff doesn't make people happy. Sure all of these are great but if you are doing them for greater happiness - you will be disappointed.

Do you think someone who is starving in the world gives a rip about having a nicer car or even a car?

Health - There are numerous studies over the years that have validated that the number one contributor to sickness and death is unmanaged stress and do you know the major cause of stress? It's a lack of patience or control. So, why not ask yourself - is a roof over my head enough? Are three meals a day enough, is having health insurance enough or do you whine about what's missing?

So let me close with a quick question - are your issues, challenges, concerns, worries or fears even close to the general negative global statistics when it comes to these areas? If not - get over it and just be OK with what you have and stop complaining about what you don't have

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